Wednesday, December 22, 2010

What Women Want

I recently was asked, "What is important to a women, what do they look for in guys?"

Such a good question and one that I actually have been thinking about lately. When it comes to looks, I know such is based on a woman's preference but there are definitely some fundamental things we all look for such as integrity, strength of will, great compansionship, and passion. The role of the man and women has seemed to change quite a bit over the last decade. Women are becoming more masculine and doing more than ever before and men are struggling to figure out what it is that women need and want while adjusting to the role change.


If you have not done so already, both "Wild at Heart" and "Captivating" are great books that dive into the basic needs and wants of men and women. Although the life roles of men and women continue to morph, I believe the core of men and women never really change.

A woman wants a man that will go to the end of the earth for her. She wants a "MAN" that will slay dragons and fight wars for her. She wants a man that will love and support her, that marvels in her beauty, femiminity and strength. In return, this woman will support her man like no other. She will allow him to conquer the world and will support  him through the fight. She will put her faith and trust in him.  I know this may sound old school but at the end of the day that is what holds a relationship together. Money, looks, status...all of those things can come and go....what really is important is trusting eachother with the most important thing you own...your heart.

Shine ON!!

Keri

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Keri, that was nice. Now a new career, "Keri Murphy, Relationship Counselor for the Lonely at Heart"

Have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

Charles White

Croix Sather said...

Kerri,
Love the way you wrote this article. I'll echo and build on it by saying that a man in his true nature will want to be like your description. And he wants a woman he is inspired to "go to the end of the Earth." I reposted to my FB page too. Merry Christmas. ... Croix